I am so sorry for missing past four weeks - balancing between school, job, organization, workout, and social life is consuming me. (Well, that was a lie, I just did not have any idea what to write. LOL). Alright, people say that February is the month of love, but I would take a perspective of hatred! So, enjoyyyyyyyyyyyyy.
I know that all of you have several people that you just hate because of their existence. If you don't have one, bless your heart. I believe that hating people is part of life and it is YOUR RIGHT to hate people because not everyone deserve to be loved or cared for.
However, do you realize that when you hate people you are wasting your energy for nothing? They might be happy or do not even realize that you hate them!
Yeah, I feel like by hating others you are a less happy person. They pass by or even hearing they breath made you very uncomfortable.
So, instead of hating them, I think we should be able to just ignore them. Ha! Isn't it fun to ignore people we hate so much? It seems that they have no power or effect on us at all! But the top solution would be stop hating them, forgive them for whatever they did and move on! Or you can be very nice to them. I believe that it will make them fell guilty and it will be a win win solution!
I introspected my self and I realize that sometimes it is very easy for me to hate people. Even if I do not know them at all. Isn't that ridiculous? But after a while, I make my decision to be a happier person by first ignoring them then forgive then tried to be very nice to them. And trust me, it works like magic!
Do you have any experience of hating people? Share it here! I would love to hear from y'all!
See you all on the next post!
“Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you
bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will
consume you too.” -Will Smith-